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Welcome to She’s Evil.com. Let’s start by telling you what we’re all about. First off, we do not hate women. We love women. Really. We REALLY love some women. But like most of you, we’ve had our different experiences with them, and let’s face it gentlemen, some of them are just plain EVIL! That’s not to say that they all are, or that all of us are perfect. (Truth is, some of us can be evil too. Not exactly breaking news) But this site is for the average guy out there, married or not, who tries to do the right things, plays by the rules (and it’s pretty clear nowadays that we didn’t write the damn rules), and just finds himself frustrated by a one-sided relationship where the woman wants more and more, believes that her needs and feelings are paramount, and doesn’t give a damn about our own wants or long-term goals.
The creators of this site are all either married or divorced, and naturally that colors our outlook. But the site is not strictly for divorced men. All are welcome, whether they are married, single, engaged, or divorced. Anybody who has experienced an evil woman. Hell, maybe even frustrated lesbians can offer something here (we’re not quite sure yet though. The jury is still out on whether people who think like you can ever agree with people who think like us). We want this to be enjoyable, and a place to vent. Get your frustrations off your chest with like minded people facing the same problems and stresses. Let off some steam in a cyber world that speaks your language. But we also aim to be a resource for men who are facing the real problems of divorce or relationship stress. We plan to post links to online resources, from legal advice to matchmaking services, that will be of assistance to men currently in bad relationships. But mostly, this is YOUR site. Log in, read what’s up here, and weigh in with your comments and experiences.
US population statistics indicate that as many as 12 million American men have experienced divorce. This is very likely the most underserved and underrepresented demographic group in our society. Child custody laws are stacked against us. Popular culture paints us as insensitive louts who deserve our miserable lot in life. Family court judges rule against us with regularity. The media paints a picture of abusive spouses and deadbeat dads. There are very few outlets that give us a voice, respect our opinions, and look out for our interests. This site aims to provide that outlet. So enjoy the ride, and get in the game. We want to hear from you, and we want the world to hear from all of us. If you want to show off your thoughts visit the She’s Evil Shop
Amen. It’s about time a site like this showed up on the net. There are a lot of us out there, we need forum. Now we have one. Look forward to seeing what you guys have in store here.
This looks like a good site. Are there any lawyers out there who can log on here and give some solid advice? Not sure where things are headed in my life yet, but would like to know my options.
Good site. How long will it be before the women see this and start crying about how obnoxious, politically incorrect, or insensitive it is. The title alone will probably get some of them up in arms. Good luck, guys, hope this catches on. Nobody seems to give a damn about our rights, and a lot of women get upset if you even hint that the system isn’t perfect.
Just found, LOVE it! I’ll be passing it on to my buddies
It would be nice if the men on this site could actually band into a cohesive voitng bloc, so that we could actually help change some of the unfairness and inconsistencies in the family court laws and child custody rulings of different states. There seems to be no consideration at all to the emotional well being, finances, or mental health of fathers when child custody and support decisions are made. Women seem to be automatically ruled victims in these cases, and they are encouraged to soak the man for all he’s worth. Additionally, the man’s access to his children is regulated by outsiders or a hostile former spouse. Shame on the deadbeats who want nothing to do with their children or who are unwilling to support them, but at the same time, the great majority of men in this country place their children at the highest priority, and it’s shameful and disgusting the way they are treated by the court system. Just my two cents, but I’ll bet some others agree
I’m doing pretty good now, dating a good woman. But my last relationship was a nightmare, she WAS evil. In a divorce proceeding, I was the bad guy. Did nothing but try to work things out, and once it was beyond repair, tried to make a fair settlement with her. But in spite of my best intentions, still cost me a bundle. I think even the tax code in this country is more fair than the divorce laws in terms of the way men are treated. Nobody ever questions politicians or judges on how the system got this far into disrepair.
There are very few places where you can even find anything on the topic of “men’s rights”. Anyone paying attention with an open mind could tell you that men are being bulldozed in child custody cases, and are treated like meal tickets by the family court system. Of course men and women should both be responsible and take care of their children, but the deck is stacked completely against men. Women are automatically assumed to be better parents, and it’s almost impossible for a man to win custody. If he even tries, he has to spend a fortune, and it will probably be a waste of time anyway. Child support quite often is just a method of transferring power and wealth from men to women. One hope I have for this country is to see some fairness come back into the system, otherwise it’s going to implode at some point. There’s a lot of anger out there among men, and the judges and politicians don’t seem to recognize it.
Hi, I’m a teacher and divorced with two boys. I was navigating last thursday and I bumped into this cool site, although it looks like it’s only for men. I read some women’s comments. I took very personal Steve’s comments. I agree when he said two parents have to be responsible for the children’s well being, but, It pisses me off when he says “women are automatically assumed to be better parents, and it’s almost impossible for a man to win custody”. I have two things to writte. 1) It takes two to make babies. 2) Statistics show a very low level of men whom want to have custody. Most men welcome being single again after a divorce and want their freedom. 3) Steve is a macho ass and I think he’s offensive.
Ariana, The problem is for the men who want custody. The courts will (unless the woman is a homicidal maniac) in all cases award custody to the woman regardless of the mans desires or capabilities. The deck is clearly stacked against the men with no reprieve in sight. ISteve’s comments hit the nail ojn the head.